Lessons in life Dhoni gave us
Lessons in life Dhoni gave us
By : Speaking Tree  |
Here is a man who does not collapse under the weight of a comment from an important cricketer but works forward with gusto, logic and a renewed determination. When important people undermine or underestimate you, get in touch with your feelings of fear, dread, anger or sadness and convert these into greater resolve. As a kid, Sachin Tendulkar too would not rest till he had defeated his friends in a table tennis match after a loss at his old residence Sahitya Sahawas.
Move onWhen India loses, Dhoni often publicly accepts the team’s shortfalls but does not dwell on them for long. During one loss, he said, “This match is over, let’s plan for the next.” Unlike captains of yesteryears, who would brood, ruminate and introspect too much, our reigning captain has mastered the art of leaving things behind. Fear and disappointment are not allowed to percolate his mind Just focus on newer frontiers with a fresh pair of eyes and a refreshed mood. Do not be the victim of excessive critical appraisal from yourself or others It may paralyse you.
Us, not IOn the day of victory, the World Cup was in every player’s hands, except Dhoni’s. A couple of years ago, Dhoni asked Anil Kumble to take the cup after a victory in a test series. His genuine affection for his team is visible and the bonding is strong. He has praise for all but neither did he mince words when Gambhir failed to make his 100 due to a bad shot. He is genuine, even blunt. He has publicly made statements such as, “Our middle order should perform” or “Sreeshanth should behave”.
Stay cool Dhoni is cool during tense moments. No sledging, or rash words. It would be interesting to learn more about his self-talk. It probably involves thoughts such as ‘Calm down’, ‘Focus now’ or “Let me try something new’. The feeling of dread and fear is allowed to pass. He probably observes these emotions come and go on his mind screen. This thought process is visible on his face that remains childlike many a time during a crisis. So, when the chips are down, just observe your feelings as they come. If you find yourself fretting or yelling, you have been hijacked emotionally and will lose friends and battles. If not, creative responses will emerge.
Keep at itMSD teased Ravi Shashtri by saying, “If we had lost, many questions — why Sreeshanth, why did I bat before Yuvraj — would have been asked.” His getting into the middle of a battle shows he loves challenges and does not bother with incessant advice from ex-greats. Like Anil Kumble, who shared at his retirement that he ignored all criticism during his lean period and persisted, our captain also practices ‘dogged perseveration with risk-taking’. The Dhoni mantra is clear — persevere while down, take risks and obey your instincts.
